Human sexual need or lack of need will change as we mature. It might be impossible for two person to have harmonious level of desire.Great understanding are needed to listen more when lack of harmony arises. We are gifted to bring message to one another through sexual sharing. But it requires great discipline-of not complaining,not blaming, and not judging.The ultimate discipline of unconditional love and curiosity.
There are so many reasons why two persons are drawn sexually the need to be reassured, to be safe, to be one, to feel valued or to heal the misunderstanding, to do our duty, to express our love so on and so forth. What ever the reasons are there are part of deep drive towards wholeness and love.
But sometimes each reasons will also comes in different energy level. Like for example, The need of an assurance that we are loved and valued. Our partner sometimes considered their duty to give you, in that non of us will be satisfied.
Our characteristics as strong and sensitive as our sexuality, it will become our central point where we discover our fears. It takes courage to surpass our fear. But when we do, we open the way for great happiness and discovery of ourselves. The more we are freely shared ourselves to our love one the more we are satisfied intimately in our sexual harmony.
up he will be come a better man.
Relationships are not perfect. To make it work we have to go through a lot of trials,Love is not exactly as sweet and romantic like we see in movies and read in novels. There's the petty quarrels and jealousy. But getting through with these, are not guarantee that you have a perfect relationship.
You have to experience all of those trials to make your relationship work. Based on, our experience with my wife here are some ideas that might help you guys to work on your relationship.
Communication, is the most important in relationship.If you have problems or argument its better to talk and fix it before it's too late. Keeping your thoughts or anger all by yourself will make it worst.You might end-up regretting on things you've said and done because you keep all your anger all by yourself.Communicating with your partner doesn't mean you only talk because you have a problem. Take time to talk anything,reflect on whats going on with your relationship.Have sometime alone with your partner,Go on a date,Do things you both love to do. As much as possible try new things enjoy each others company.Most important things in relationship will not work without love. But it also comes with patience and understanding. Build your relationship on something stronger than love. Being a friend and a lover to your partner will make your relationship more meaningful.
First impression means a lot on dating. You may not agree with me but that the real truth on dating. That's why you have to look good on your first date. You will not probably going to wear the first outfit you've seen in your closet. You even going to spend hours in your mirror, wondering what are you going to wear,do you look good on it. And even asking yourself some questions like the "what if"; what if don't like me?, what if he find you boring? what if he dump you to another girl by the end of the night....(oh that's really hurt). Here are some tips on dating:
Your body:
1. "Dirty" is a big turn off. Spend some hours to take a bath and wash your hair.
2. Your hands, people tends to look at your hands, cut your long nails and if you have sometime go to your nearest salon and have a manicure and pedicure.
3. Brush you hear.
4. Brush your teeth and gargle some breath freshener for some sweet smile and breath.
5. Put some of your favorite cologne or perfume. But don't over do it your date might end up having a terrible headache due to your smell.
Your Outfit:
1. Sing and dance to your favorite music while dressing, it will help you get in the mood and uplift your spirit.
2. Asked your date the venue so that you will know what is the perfect outfit that matches the venue. Dress to impress.
3. Wear sexy and comfortable underwear. This will boost your confidence and you will feel sexy. Remember Confidence is sexy.
4. Choose an outfit that will bring out your personality dress normally,comfortably you might not enjoy on your date because you were so conscious the whole time.
Your Mind:
1. Build a good conversation and communication. Talk about your interest, likes, hobbies, sports, work, pet, etc. You'll never know you might have the same interest. Be attentive and listen to your date.
2. Always have your sense of humor. Don't reveal your secrets on your date, you might end-up the talk of the town after your first date. Avoid talking about you and your ex.
Your Manners:
1. Don't forget to say "Thank you" and "Please".
2. Don't expect too much. Remember to find something nice on your date and compliment him/ her. Even in your first sight, you already know that she's not your type, be friendly and courteous you might find by the end of your date, you can find a good friend.
Enjoy and have fun on your date.
