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One of the best known landmarks in Lilo-an is its historic lighthouse at Bagacay Point Lighthouse. The original lighthouse was built in 1857 by the Spanish.Liloan was already known for its scenic pristine beaches and as a resort town, favorite place for sea bathing in northern part of Cebu,Philippines.The word Liloan, as the legend is told, comes from the word “lilo” - whirling waters that form when the sea approaches an abrupt depth at a point just after a bridge.Liloan is home to a number of ceramics manufacturers. Their shops sell a variety of ceramics items - from ordinary plant pots, to bricks and exotic jars.

As of today, May 24, 2009,the World Health Organisation reported the total number of swine flu infections. In 43 countries there are already 12, 022 cases.

Since Friday May 22,2009, there are 854 new cases have been reported, including with the number of deaths -- all cases are in USA.WHO warns that some countries who where most afftected by the A(H1N1) virus, have stopped keeping full track of the diseases.

Here is a list released by WHO last Saturday. The figures may slightly differ from those issued by national authorities due to the time lag in notification and publication.


Mexico: 75
United States: 9;
Canada: 1
Costa Rica: 1

CASES (including death)

United States: 6,552 (up 788 from Friday)
Mexico : 3,892
Canada : 719
Japan : 321 (up 27)
Spain : 126 (up 13)
Britain : 117 (up five)
Panama : 76 (up three)
Chile : 24
Costa Rica : 20
Germany : 17 (up three)
France : 16
Italy : 14 (up four)
Australia : 12 (up five)
Colombia : 12
China : 11
New Zealand : 9
Brazil : 8
Ecuador : 8
Belgium : 7 (up two)
Israel : 7
El Salvador : 6
Peru : 5
Cuba : 4
Guatemala : 4
Norway : 4 (up one)
Netherlands : 3
South Korea : 3
Sweden : 3
Finland : 2
Malaysia : 2
Poland : 2
Switzerland : 2
Thailand : 2
Turkey : 2
Argentina : 1
Austria : 1
Denmark : 1
Greece : 1
India : 1
Ireland : 1
Philippines : 1
Portugal : 1
Taiwan : 1

Source:Agence France-Presse

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WASHINGTON (AFP) - - Facebook on Friday was blocking links to bogus websites set up to look like the home page of the popular social network in a "phishing" attack by hackers"Were aware of the attack and are already blocking links to these new phishing sites from being shared on Facebook," the Palo Alto, California, company said in a statement.
"Were also cleaning up phony messages and wall posts and resetting the passwords of affected users," it said.
Facebook did not say how many of the 200 million users of the social network had been affected in the latest hacker attack.
An unknown number of Facebook users received a message on Thursday from a friend's account urging them to visit websites such as ""
The sites were realistic-looking replicas of the social network's log-in page but were actually controlled by the hackers. The bogus page would capture password information when a user logged in.
Facebook said it believed the latest attack was related to a similar scheme two weeks ago known as ""
Online social networking services are prime targets for hackers because they provide trusted gateways into users' networks of friends, according to computer security specialists.
Hackers can use breached social networking accounts for "nefarious purposes" such as infecting computers with malware, malicious software, that steals valuable data or commandeers control of machines, according to Internet security firm MarkMonitor.
Facebook advises users to shun messages, posts or links asking for log-in information and to always make certain they are visiting the social networking website's legitimate address of

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President Arroyo has named Filipino boxing champion Manny Pacquiao as the country’s “Ambassador for Peace and Understanding” in an elaborate homecoming ceremony at Malacañang yesterday.The homegrown boxing hero was also tapped by the government as a “glorified asset” in its intelligence affairs and designated him as special assistant to Secretary of Justice Raul Gonzalez.
Meanwhile, tens of thousands lined the streets of the metropolis to welcome the boxing superstar who had earlier defied a government request to stay in the US over fears of the dreaded A(H1N1) influenza virus.
Pacquiao arrived at the Palace grounds at 10:45 a.m. in a motorcade and was met by Executive Secretary Eduardo Ermita.
He was then escorted to the Music Room where he was received by Mrs. Arroyo and First Gentleman Jose Miguel Arroyo. The Filipino boxing champion gave the First Couple blue jackets from Team Pacquiao.
Pacquiao was also presented by Palace chefs with a 28-pound chocolate cake that had a candy replica of his belt as decoration.
Ermita read the proclamation declaring a National Day of Celebration for Pacquiao’s victory.
Under department order no. 344 signed by Gonzalez, Pacquiao was tasked to coordinate with the National Bureau of Investigation (NBI) and provide intelligence reports “in the interest of public service and pursuant to the provisions of existing laws.”
Gonzalez told reporters last night that the boxing champion would not receive a salary from the government. He said Pacquiao was given an official designation in government simply because “he deserves it.”
“He said he wanted to help the government in whatever way he could. He was asking for it (a designation) and it wasn’t hard for us to give it anyway,” he stressed.
The Justice chief said he has known Pacquiao for a long time and personally knows that the latter would be able to help government because of his access to information that may be crucial to some cases being handled by the DOJ.
Gonzalez also said that the boxing champion could be a big help to programs and campaigns of the Justice department because he is well respected in Visayas and Mindanao.
Pacquiao, however, was not given any specific assignment.
Gonzalez recalled that he already was considering giving the popular boxing champion the honorary directorship of his department’s action center.

WASHINGTON -- The White House on Friday opened doors at online hot spots MySpace, Facebook and Twitter.
Content from US President Barack Obama's website is being fed in real time to White House profile pages at MySpace, Facebook and Twitter and members of those communities can sign up as friends or followers.
"Technology has profoundly impacted how -- and where -- we all consume information and communicate with one another," the White House said in a blog posting at titled "WhiteHouse 2.0."
" is an important part of the Administration's effort to use the Internet to reach the public quickly and effectively -- but it isn't the only place."
The blog posting referred to an Obama speech from a week earlier in which the president said the government needs to be more creative and transparent, and that he would "reach beyond the halls of government."
"Beginning today, users can connect directly with the Obama administration on a daily basis to stay informed and educated about the priorities and activities of the United States government," MySpace said.
"The community also provides users the opportunity to voice their thoughts and concerns directly to the White House by leaving comments and participating in discussion forums," the social network said in a statement.
Crowned the first "Internet president," Obama also has photos, videos and information available online at Flickr, YouTube, Vimeo, and iTunes.

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WASHINGTON -- A 21-year-old Swede was indicted on Tuesday on charges of hacking into the computer systems of NASA and US networking giant Cisco, the US Justice Department said.
Philip Gabriel Pettersson, also known as "Stakkato," was indicted on charges of intrusion and misappropriating trade secrets, the Justice Department said in a statement.
Pettersson was accused in the five-count indictment of breaking into the computer system and network of San Jose, California-based Cisco in May 2004 and stealing operating system code.
He allegedly broke into computers belonging to the US space agency NASA's Ames Research Center and the NASA Advanced Supercomputing Division in Moffett Field, California, in May and October of the same year.
The Justice Department did not provide Pettersson's current whereabouts but said it will "continue to work cooperatively with the Swedish authorities on the case."
It said the maximum penalty for each charge of intrusion and theft of trade secrets is 10 years in prison and a fine of $250,000.

Swine influenza A (H1N1) virus spreads same way as the seasonal flu. Flu viruses are spread mainly from person to person through coughing or sneezing of people with influenza. Sometimes people may become infected by touching something with flu viruses on it and then touching their mouth or nose. Infected person can be able to infect others a day before the symptoms develop and up to 1 week or more after becoming infected. It means that the infected person can pass on the flu to someone before he know that he is sick, and as well as while he is sick.
The best thing to prevent and the most important: wash your hands. Try to stay and maintain healthy life style. Get plenty of sleep and rest, be physically active, manage your stress, drink plenty of fluids, and eat nutritious food. Try not touch surfaces that may be contaminated with the flu virus. Avoid close contact with people who are sick. If you got infected stay home and try to avoid others to keep them from being infected.

Symptoms of swine flu and Severe Acute Respiratory Syndrome or SARS are utmost the same. Both SARS and flu first signs of symptoms are acute fever and respiratory problems. There are also sudden attacks of fever which sometimes can be very high, from 39 to 40 degrees Celsius. Symptoms like coughs, sore throats, headaches, and general aches and pains. Also it has reported that people have diarrhea and vomiting associated with swine flu. But when it comes to numbers flu is more serious and dangerous than SARS.
In the past, severe illness (pneumonia and respiratory failure) and deaths have been reported with swine flu infection in people. World Health Organization (WHO) said that the symptoms of swine flu are similar to seasonal influenza. Mild cases may have escaped from recognition; therefore the true extent of this disease among humans is unknown.

Swine flue is a very contagious acute respiratory disease usally found in pigs. It spreads through air or by direct contact. World Health Organization (WHO) said that it tends to infect large numbers of a given pig population, killing between 1 and 4 percent of those affected. Not every animal infected displays symptoms. The outbreaks occur in United States and have also reported in North America, South America, Europe, Africa and Parts of Eastern Asia. Human usally infected the virus through contact with the pigs.WHO says properly handled and prepared pork products are safe to eat. Swine virus dies when cooked at temperature of 70 degree C higher. The risk of a pandemci has increased. Health officials worry the swine flu might develop into a form easly spread among humans. The symtoms of the swine virus are fever of more than 100 degrees, body aches, coughing, a sore throat, respiratory congestion and some cases vomiting and diarrhea. The swine flu virus detected in Mexico and the United States appears to responds to treatment with Oseltamivir (Tamiflu) and Zanamivir (Relenza). In terms of prevention, maintaing good hygiene, and staying distance from those infected.

LONDON (Reuters) – MUZU.TV, an Irish-based video website which has won plaudits from the music industry for the way it pays artists when their music is played online, has signed a deal with the world's largest label Universal.
MUZU.TV, which has also signed deals with EMI, Sony BMG, the Ministry of Sound and Cooking Vinyl, says it is purpose-built to pay artists through advertising when their music is played.
Users can either watch music videos on the MUZU site, on artist sites or embed them into social networks.
On Tuesday MUZU announced it had signed a video license to show videos in Britain and Ireland for Universal's global artist repertoire, including the likes of Amy Winehouse and U2. Universal is owned by Vivendi.
It also said on Tuesday it was powering video for all Sony Music artists on the popular Bebo social network and it is the official partner on the Michael Jackson site for Britain and Ireland.
MUZU has been welcomed by the music industry which had previously criticized other sites such as YouTube for failing to properly compensate artists. The industry is also keen to develop their digital businesses as physical sales of CDs fall.

Yahoo Inc. close GeoCities, a Web site publishing and hosting services.The service will be shut down later this year. Visitors to the site now see a message that says sorry the new GeoCities accounts will not be available and gives them the option to sign up for Yahoo's Web hosting service for $5.98 a month.GeoCities is not the only Yahoo service to get the ax — Yahoo Briefcase, Farechase, My Web, RSS ads, Yahoo Pets, Yahoo Live, Kickstart and Yahoo For Teachers all are being eliminated as well. The search giant also recently outsourced Launchcast radio to CBS Corp."As part of Yahoo's ongoing effort to build products and services that deliver the best possible experiences for consumers and results for advertisers, we are increasing investment in some areas while scaling back in others.The trimming is part of a process that started in 2007 while Jerry Yang was still chief executive, to close down services that aren't profitable or don't fit into company's long-term vision.In a sign of its ongoing troubles, Yahoo said Tuesday that it will lay off nearly 700 workers, the company's third round of job cuts during the past 14 months.Yahoo earned $118 million, or 8 cents per share, during the first three months of the year. That represents a 78 percent drop from net income of $537 million, or 37 cents per share, in the year-ago period.Revenue fell 13 percent to $1.58 billion.Yahoo shares rose 7 cents Thursday to close at $14.55.

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SEATTLE — Microsoft Corp.'s next version of its Office desktop programs will reach consumers next year, though not likely in conjunction with the Windows 7 operating system.Microsoft is set to announce Wednesday that Office 2010 will be finished and ready to send to manufacturers in the first half of next year.From there, it can take six weeks to four months or more for the programs to reach PC users, said Chris Capossela, a senior vice president in the Microsoft group that makes Office. The timing will differ for big businesses and individual consumers, and for people who buy packaged software versus those who download it.Some industry watchers had expected a new version of Office this year, but Microsoft Chief Executive Steve Ballmer extinguished that rumor at a meeting with analysts in February.Capossela declined to be more specific about a launch date. Windows 7, the successor to Windows Vista, is scheduled to reach consumers by the end of January 2010.Office 2010 — previously known by the code name "Office 14" — will include slimmed-down versions of Word, Excel, PowerPoint and OneNote that let people create and edit documents in a Web browser. Consumers will have access to a free, ad-supported version, and Capossela said the company is still hammering out what to charge businesses that want a version without ads.Microsoft plans to let hundreds of thousands of people test a technical preview of the new Office portfolio starting in the third quarter of 2009, Capossela said. The company did not say whether average PC users will have a chance to test a more polished beta version.Microsoft also said a new version of its Exchange e-mail server will be available for purchase in the second half of 2009. When paired with the next version of Microsoft's Outlook e-mail program, Exchange 2010 aims to prevent e-mail faux pas and would warn people against trying to "reply all" to a huge distribution list. Microsoft said it can also be tweaked to stop people from sending e-mail outside the organization, helping businesses cut down on unnecessary e-mail and prevent leaks.A beta version of Exchange 2010 was to be made available on Wednesday. - AP

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WHO DO YOU THINK WILL WIN? WHY?For me Pacquiao will win for he have shown a lot of perseverance and from his previous match his really a good boxer and fighter.

Last weekend my wife asked me if she could unwind from her stressful day. So I drive her to Mactan Island to refresh her mind. Here are some pictures to see the beauty of Mactan Island:

Mactan Island Sunset

Hilton Hotel, Mactan Island Cebu, Philippines

With the constant petrol price high right now. With the high fare, the haste of transferring your bags to one place to another, and the risk of you might traveling with the snatcher or robber. You will end up not enjoying your vacation. Here are some saving tips on road trips. Get your car in shape have the engine tuned, check the tyres and the spear tyres if they are properly inflated and use the correct motor oil to improve your fuel mileage. Pack light every 45 kilograms your pack will decrease the fuel savings. Don't pump premium despite the name premium oil will not change your mileage or performance of your car. It's just a waste of money. Pack some snacks and water enough for your road trip food sold in gasoline station convenience store are 10 times more expensive than in the grocery store. Fill up at the cheapest gasoline station. So pack your bags and enjoy the summer with your family.

Juvel: Crocodile Attacks "Floating School"

Another shacking news about a 12 years old student was killed after her "floating school"was attacked by a crocodile in Buwanan, Agusan del Sur Province,Philippines last Tuesday afternoon.
It was reported that the 30-foot crocodile attacked the "floating school" carrying Rowena Romero, a classmate and a chaperone.According to Ruel Hipolan, of Save Mindanao Volunteers, The incident happen they were crossing Lake Mihaba at San Marcos village in Buwanan when the attack occured.Her headless body was recovered along with parts of the boat last Wednesday morning.

Just this morning when my family have breakfast we heard from the News about 17 year old boy killing 9 students, 3 teachers and 3 civilians in his former high school in Winnenden, Gemany - before he took his own life. It really scares us and worried for the safety our children especially now. How children at the young age expose to such violence and sometimes at sex. I remember the news last February about a young boy (Alfie Patten) became a father at the age of 13. Sometimes, we could not blame the children on what is happening to them. The adults are more responsible and great influence of such violence. They(children), need our guidance, love, understanding and support from us especially at their difficult times.

Living a meaningless life makes us became unworthy, unlove. Our lives becomes less vital,our attituted becomes so dull and we feel robbed of our sense of purpose and pleasure in life. However, if we live a meaningful life and believe that everything we do will make a difference then our lives becomes important we feel more useful, joy, healthy, fruitful life. We become more connected with others and our days will become more brighter.

SYDNEY (AFP) – Nearly 200 whales and several dolphins have beached themselves on an island off southern Australia and a race is on to save the dozens of survivors, officials said Monday.
About 50 of 194 pilot whales and seven dolphins stranded on King Island between the mainland and Tasmania were still alive, Tasmania's Parks and Wildlife Service spokesman Chris Arthur said.
Although around 140 whales had already died, Arthur told the Australian Broadcasting Corporation he hoped some could be saved.
"These are fairly robust animals, pilot whales. We've experienced that in the past," he said.
Local residents have been at the scene since the whales began stranding themselves late Sunday, and rescuers were headed to the island in the Bass Strait, Arthur said.
The latest beaching takes the total number of whales stranded around Tasmania in the past four months to nearly 400.
More than 150 pilot whales died after beaching themselves on Tasmania's remote west coast in November and 48 sperm whales died in January on a sandbar off Perkins Island.
Tasmania, Australia's southern island state, experiences about 80 percent of whale beachings in the country, a phenomenon so far unexplained by science.

Sometimes too much expectation in life and too many failure to perform what we expected will frustrate us.However, we are able to live without assurance that we live in a very comfortable life. In order to be free, we need to face the insecurities of life with infinite question in our heart rather than demanding for immediate answers to our questions. With out knowing that our answers will just arrived in their own time and at the right place without expecting it.

Human sexual need or lack of need will change as we mature. It might be impossible for two person to have harmonious level of desire.Great understanding are needed to listen more when lack of harmony arises. We are gifted to bring message to one another through sexual sharing. But it requires great discipline-of not complaining,not blaming, and not judging.The ultimate discipline of unconditional love and curiosity.
There are so many reasons why two persons are drawn sexually the need to be reassured, to be safe, to be one, to feel valued or to heal the misunderstanding, to do our duty, to express our love so on and so forth. What ever the reasons are there are part of deep drive towards wholeness and love.
But sometimes each reasons will also comes in different energy level. Like for example, The need of an assurance that we are loved and valued. Our partner sometimes considered their duty to give you, in that non of us will be satisfied.
Our characteristics as strong and sensitive as our sexuality, it will become our central point where we discover our fears. It takes courage to surpass our fear. But when we do, we open the way for great happiness and discovery of ourselves. The more we are freely shared ourselves to our love one the more we are satisfied intimately in our sexual harmony.

My star was shine and my dreams begin.
Camiguin known to be the island of your imagination and other described as the most beautiful island in the Philippines. The island boasts of excellent white sand just in the coastline you'll find an excellent and healthy coral reef. The island has majestic volcanic mountains good for the mountainering who want to adventure the rocky cliffs. They also have natural water falls,cold spring,hot spring, soda spring, and pristine lagoon. The island is also famous for its sweet Lanzones because of its soil and weather conditions. The island also celebrated festivals.
Lanzones Festival-held in every October, it was a one week celebration and two days ground festival
Panaad-held every Holy Thursday and Good Friday, a yearly devotion by walking and trekking the old vulcano as expression of penitence and spiritual enrichment.

The island can be reach by Boat and Airplane.


1. From Port of Cebu (Pier 8)take a ferry bound for Camiguin(Super Shuttle Ferry) every Friday.
2. From Port of Cebu (Pier 4 & 5)take a ferry bound for Port of Cagayan de Oro City,then proceed to Agora Bus Terminal,then take a bus for Balingoan.At Balingoan take another ferry bound for Camiguin Island. Daily
3. From the City of Tagbilaran Bohol take a bus for town of Jagna and take a ferry for Camiguin Island. Daily


1. From the Mactan Cebu Domestic Airport take a plane direct for Camiguin Island ( Asian Spirit)
2. From the Airport of Cagayan de Oro City then proceed to Agora Bus Terminal,then take a bus for Balingoan.At Balingoan take a ferry bound for Camiguin Island.

Camiguin is peaceful island in the northern part of Mindanao there is no treats for terrorist on local and foreigners.


My 5 years old son Mateo, loves watching Betty La Fea (ABS-CBN program) our suprised my son draw this broken heart and said "Pa, this is the heart of Armando and Betty because they don't love each other anymore. Above the broken heart he draws a heart and he said " Pa , Ma, this is your heart because I see you both love each other" We were so suprised on his young age he could distinguise the value of love and respect in relationship. I am now confident and proud that when he grows up he will be come a better man.

When I look back at times when I was so down in my life. I have always been aftraid and thinking what it was I feared of. I realize how exaggerated I was over the pictures made by my fears. Sometimes ,the thought of being fear makes me believe that they are real but what makes it real is, I give them power on having a fearful thought . Now, I learned to have more power on myself and not my fear. I have to bring out the best of me and my family...

Scuba diving is one of my favorite pass time at the same time great bonding of my son every Sunday in Maribago, Mactan Island Cebu.

Mandaue, has always been my second home. My wife, a true blue Mandauehanon, help me discover and witnessed the true beauty of Mandaue. Mandaue city is known to be the home of industrial and export company but it has its own share of history in Cebu.

The old "Municipio" has only one storey. In late 70's the second floor was constructed.

National Shrine of St. Joseph houses the"Señor de Cena", a life size statues of Jesus and his 12 Apostles. These hundred years old replica is said to be the only one of a kind in the whole world.

Cebu International Convention Center
Built last April 2006 for the 12th Asian Summit.
Mandauehanon are really proud of their city which is tagged to be an industrial hub of Cebu. Hopefully Mandaue City will also be known for its rich in history and heritages.

"When you are in trouble, a true friend will be the first to rush for help. Out one true friend is God who has been our comrade through the entire endless adventure of existence".

- Rev. Borja

What I have learned right now is the value of my family and God... I remember how I
used to spend to much time with my friends going out every night have a drinking spree and went home drunk. How my wife just cried and so disappointed on me when I came home so drunk. But from what I have experiencing right now that I lost my job...I also lost my so called FRIENDS.... Now, I realize the one true friend I have are my family and God who is always there for me in my trouble times, they give me strength to face everything. I don't have to waste my time looking back at what I have lost. I learned not to take for granted my family for I might wake up one day I lost my DIAMOND because I'm so busy collecting stones.


Posted by juvel | 6:16 PM

BMW is one of the most expensive car but my BMW is not all about car but it also most expensive one.

Bless my Work!!!

Bless my Wisdom!!!

Bless my Way!!!

Have a good day!!!

by:Rev. Carlos Borja

Malapascua Island, is found in the norther part of Cebu, Philippines. It has very nice white sand beaches. Ideal for swimming and snokeling. If your fun of scuba diving the island is rich of marine life. Malapascua Island can be reached by 4 hours trip on Ceres Bus Liner from Mandaue City North Bus Terminal to Maya, Daanbantayan. The a 1 hour motor boat ride to the island for only P40.00. There are simple resorts in the Island were you can stay and you can also buy fresh sea food from the local folks and have it cooked.

Relationships are not perfect. To make it work we have to go through a lot of trials,Love is not exactly as sweet and romantic like we see in movies and read in novels. There's the petty quarrels and jealousy. But getting through with these, are not guarantee that you have a perfect relationship.
You have to experience all of those trials to make your relationship work. Based on, our experience with my wife here are some ideas that might help you guys to work on your relationship.
Communication, is the most important in relationship.If you have problems or argument its better to talk and fix it before it's too late. Keeping your thoughts or anger all by yourself will make it worst.You might end-up regretting on things you've said and done because you keep all your anger all by yourself.Communicating with your partner doesn't mean you only talk because you have a problem. Take time to talk anything,reflect on whats going on with your relationship.Have sometime alone with your partner,Go on a date,Do things you both love to do. As much as possible try new things enjoy each others company.Most important things in relationship will not work without love. But it also comes with patience and understanding. Build your relationship on something stronger than love. Being a friend and a lover to your partner will make your relationship more meaningful.

Today, is a day to celebrate the spirit of love and to express your feelings. As they say today is Lover's Holiday, a day were couple gives chocolates, flowers or gifts to each other. According Hatfield and Hapson, love have two types. The passionate and compassionate. Passionate love is a powerful emotional reaction where you keep on thinking on your love one and it also involves warm sexual feelings. Compassionate love is tender and trusting feeling to someone close to you. Robert Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love have three components, the passion, intimacy and commitment. Passion is a physical attraction to the person that makes you feel in love. It s mostly influences your decision to love the person. Intimacy a feeling of being connected and close to the person that makes you want to share your emotional and material support. Commitment is a bind between two persons to love, support and promise to be there when things get tough.

Love is when you smile thinking that someones loves you just the way you are, someone who loves and always be there for you in good and bad times. HAPPY HEARTS DAY TO ALL, LETS CELEBRATE LOVE...

For almost 6 years working... I just lost my job last night. I can't imagine how can we survive with my family. Having kids who are still young the eldest is 5 years old and the youngest is 2 months old. I have sleepless nights thinking what will I do with this. But I thank Papa God for enlighting my mind and heart, and for giving me my wife who give my strenght and encourage me not to give up. I have to be strong and think positive. I know everything what's happening right now is a part of God's ultimate plan, the eventually I will become better person and father to my children.

Fiesta Señor is celebrated every 3rd Sunday of January.The feast is in honor of the holy image of Señor Sto. de Cebu. Sinulog is Cebu's biggest and most popular festival where people converge along the routes of the procession and partake in the gaiety amidst a Mardi-gras type parade immersed in the wild-colored costumes with constant beating of drums.

Prayer to the Sto. Niño

O Most Amiable Jesus, humblest and yet the greatest, the poorest and yet the richest, the weakest and yet the most powerful, do bless us and protect us for thou has reigned in virtues, our guide in all our endeavors, and our strength in times of sorrow.

By becoming like a Child Lord Jesus, you proved that you're not a far God, but someone close to us being together with us in the stark realities of life. indeed, your generous kindness goes beyond our merits and fondest hopes of our prayers. Shower us your love. Forgive us the sins of which our consciences are afraid, and grant us the blessings we dare not even ask for. With all the fervor of our soul, hear our prayer. Amen.

First impression means a lot on dating. You may not agree with me but that the real truth on dating. That's why you have to look good on your first date. You will not probably going to wear the first outfit you've seen in your closet. You even going to spend hours in your mirror, wondering what are you going to wear,do you look good on it. And even asking yourself some questions like the "what if"; what if don't like me?, what if he find you boring? what if he dump you to another girl by the end of the night....(oh that's really hurt). Here are some tips on dating:

Your body:

1. "Dirty" is a big turn off. Spend some hours to take a bath and wash your hair.
2. Your hands, people tends to look at your hands, cut your long nails and if you have sometime go to your nearest salon and have a manicure and pedicure.
3. Brush you hear.
4. Brush your teeth and gargle some breath freshener for some sweet smile and breath.
5. Put some of your favorite cologne or perfume. But don't over do it your date might end up having a terrible headache due to your smell.

Your Outfit:

1. Sing and dance to your favorite music while dressing, it will help you get in the mood and uplift your spirit.
2. Asked your date the venue so that you will know what is the perfect outfit that matches the venue. Dress to impress.
3. Wear sexy and comfortable underwear. This will boost your confidence and you will feel sexy. Remember Confidence is sexy.
4. Choose an outfit that will bring out your personality dress normally,comfortably you might not enjoy on your date because you were so conscious the whole time.

Your Mind:

1. Build a good conversation and communication. Talk about your interest, likes, hobbies, sports, work, pet, etc. You'll never know you might have the same interest. Be attentive and listen to your date.
2. Always have your sense of humor. Don't reveal your secrets on your date, you might end-up the talk of the town after your first date. Avoid talking about you and your ex.

Your Manners:

1. Don't forget to say "Thank you" and "Please".
2. Don't expect too much. Remember to find something nice on your date and compliment him/ her. Even in your first sight, you already know that she's not your type, be friendly and courteous you might find by the end of your date, you can find a good friend.

Enjoy and have fun on your date.